In each pair, choose one partner to serve as the listener first. The other partner is the persuader.
- Attached to this sheet is a set of prompts for debate. The listener chooses one of the prompts and chooses which side they agree with. The persuader will be tasked with arguing/explaining the other point of view.
- For two minutes, the persuader works to explain their point of view to the listener. The listener’s job is purely to listen, practicing the skills of Active Listening. The skills they should be modeling are:
- Pay Close Attention: the listener should pay close attention to the persuader, without looking to respond.
- Witholding Judgment: the listener should not judge the arguments of the persuader seeking only to understand them.
- Paraphrase and Clarify: the listener should take time to paraphrase or clarify what they are hearing from the persuader.
- Ask Open Questions: the listener should ask open questions to prompt further conversation. Open questions invite the persuader to expand upon their point. If a question has a Yes/No answer or a one word answer, it is not an open question.
- After two minutes have passed, switch roles and choose a new prompt to repeat the activity.